With over a decade of experience representing clients going through difficult family struggles, attorney Lu Aloupas never backs down from a challenge. Whether you are contemplating divorce as a civilian or member of the military, fighting for custody of your children, or negotiating a child or spousal support agreement, she will zealously advocate for your interests.


Divorces are complicated and stressful, especially when kids are involved. It is hard for you to see the light at the end of the tunnel when you are in the middle of it, but Lu Aloupas sees the big picture. She knows from experience that the pain and uncertainty are temporary, and she will work hard to get you through the tough part as quickly as possible.

Trust Lu to handle your spouse and their attorney while you focus on what matters most—moving on with your life and taking care of your kids. When you hire Aloupas Law for your divorce, you can rest assured knowing that a skilled litigator is working for you.

Prenuptial, Separation, and Other AgreementsPrenuptial, Separation, and Other Agreements

Prenuptial agreements, separation agreements, and other types of family law agreements are more than words on a sheet of paper; they are deeply personal journeys that involve your future, your finances, and your family. In the midst of such challenging times, especially when children are involved, it can be difficult to envision a brighter future. However, with the guidance of an experienced attorney like Lu Aloupas, that light at the end of the tunnel becomes clearer.

Lu Aloupas does not just see the legal case; she sees the whole picture. Her goal is to guide you through the toughest parts of this journey as swiftly and smoothly as possible, minimizing the stress and emotional toll it can take. Let Lu take the legal burden off your shoulders so you can focus on starting a new chapter in your life.

Military Members & FamiliesMilitary Members & Families

Whether you are active duty or retired military—or you are the family member of a former or current servicemember—when you are considering divorce, you need a lawyer who understands the unique factors affecting this type of case, including division of benefits, process serving, and jurisdiction.

Lu Aloupas guides military families through the complexities of divorce, separation, child support, custody, and/or parenting time disputes in Hampton Roads. Her experience and confidence will give you the peace of mind that comes with knowing that your interests are being protected in the face of special military rights and entitlements.

Child Custody, Parenting Time, and Child SupportChild Custody, Parenting Time, and Child Support

Ending a relationship when children are involved makes a break-up much more complicated and emotionally difficult. It's important that you have an objective professional on your side to help you work out a custody, parenting time, and support agreement that is fair, manageable, and in the best interests of your children.

Lu Aloupas has been where you are. As a divorced mother of two adult children, she knows better than anyone that the struggle is temporary, and it will all work out in the end if you have a legal advocate in your corner.

Spousal SupportSpousal Support

Among the most contentious and difficult factors to finalize in a divorce or separation are financial support agreements.  If one party earned significantly more than the other during the marriage, spousal support payments might be awarded.

At Aloupas Law, we advocate for fairness, whether we are representing the paying party or the party who is owed support. The courts have guidelines and formulas to follow, but we ensure that our client gets what they need to survive—and thrive. Contact us as early in the process as possible to find out how we can help.